Marriage Advice

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Remember How Wonderful You
Dreamt Being Married Would Be?

"It Can Be Even Better!"

You no longer naively believe everything will just naturally be perfect. You're not always on the same page. "Miscommunications" have happened. Some pretty funny, others not quite so funny. It happens to virtually everyone.

Most couples simply follow this "Trial And Error Method Of Marriage" until they divorce or are unhappy in their marriage. How sad and totally unnecessary.

The first step towards living your dream marriage is to have a shared dream.

Even if your marriage isn't everything you hoped for, you can reignite your love affair and have it last for life by developing shared goals and giving each other the key to your happiness. Marriages don't remain static. Either they are growing stronger or they are fading a little each day. Make yours grow. Createng your own, unique Marriage Pact^TM!

From: Charlie Michaels, co-Author of “Mastering Marriage”

Dear Marriage Partner,

Mike and I are ordinary people with an extraordinary gift to share with you: the clues to growing happier and more in love throughout your marriage.

Think back to your wedding and how happy and in love you were. Wouldn’t it be glorious to wake up every morning for the rest of your life and feel as lucky to be with your partner as you did that day?

Since this is what all couples dream of, why do so few achieve it?

Most people spend a great deal of time preparing for their wedding and reception but simply allow their marriage to “evolve” haphazardly through time.

You prepared for your wonderful day,
now prepare for your wonderful life!

Imagine the outcome of your big day if it had “evolved” without any preparation. Even if chaos had not prevailed, it’s virtually impossible that it would have been remotely as you’d dreamed. It was true of the wedding and it is true of the marriage.

The problem is people don’t even know you can lay an impenetrable foundation for a marriage, let alone how. When we ask if they have planned for their marriage like they did for their wedding most couples ask us “What do you mean?”

It is easy to understand why so many people are disillusioned after they marry and why most marriages don’t last. In our minds, even worse than divorce are couples that merely exist together in a lifeless, blah marriage. A disheartening state of affairs indeed.

Without Proper Preparation, Most Marriages Will Fail.
Most Marriages Fail.

Most of the disappointments we suffer in our lives are not because the actual situation is so terrible but instead stem from the disillusionment that sets in when the reality differs from our expectations. This is true in marriage also.

Almost all of us had unrealistic impressions of marriage that developed over our lifetimes based on movies, TV, magazines and newspapers. In addition, most people hadn’t given any real thought as to what they personally expected and wanted from married life. They just got married.

One of the major causes of the differences that can grow into marriage-ending problems is that people did not take the time to merge what they each wanted from marriage into a common goal and define how they would achieve it. This isn’t because they didn’t care, surely they did, or because they were busy, which they probably were.

The truth is they simply didn’t know what to do.

Their plan for their future together was that they had no plan. Take heart, years ago we too had no clue how to plan for marriage.

My husband and I wrote Mastering Marriage for every couple who wants to grow happier and more in love each year. It details every idea we have used for 25 years to have a marriage that exceeds our wildest expectations and our expectations were lofty.

The sooner you read about and implement our suggestions the better. You’ve undoubtedly had disagreements already that occurred because you somehow broke a rule you didn’t even know existed!

We can’t change the past but we can dramatically improve the future of your relationship. A little effort today can avoid the situations that diminish marriages.

Create The Marriage You Want
Right In The Middle Of The Marriage You Have

With a minimum of effort today, your marriage will be everything you hope for. There are pitfalls you can avoid and things you can do that will assure success.

A sampling of secrets you’ll uncover in Mastering Marriage:

Your life together will run smoother after you see through the “Mirage of Marriage” and stop putting unrealistic demands on each other.

Step-by-step how to prepare your Marriage Pact^TM, the most important document next to your license and the key to your future happiness.

The most effective communication technique ever and the key to making each other happy every day, in good times and bad.

What each of you did way back when you dated that undoubtedly has caused disappointment and what to do to correct it.

Strengthen your commitment to each other every day with three words more powerful than "I love you" and end any disagreement....almost before it begins!

Mom's "magic words" are still magic in marriage.

Discover that the harder you work to be the perfect spouse the more you can irritate your partner. Ouch!

Why not to treat each other like Mr. Potato Head^®.

The most important decisions to make about sex and money, resolving two of the biggest areas of conflict in marriage. It’s not too late!

Bend the Golden Rule and your spouse will be so happy to be married to you.

It's easy, fun and so wonderful to be one of the fabulous exceptions that grows more in love and happier to be married every year.

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Believe me, we didn’t start out as likely candidates to be writing a book on this topic. My dating history ran from comical to sad to really pathetic. At my high school graduation dinner, my classmates named me “the person most likely to have her love life made into a soap opera.” And that was before things got bad!

Ultimately, I was angry, hurt and both hated men and needed their approval. I lacked positive role models and had no apparent relationship skills. I am bossy, demanding, strong willed, impatient, intolerant of nonsense and a perfectionist. I also have many positive traits, I’m sure.

Mike went to an all boys’ high school and admits to being backwards and awkward with women. He has an explosive temper, is bossy, argumentative, strong willed, work obsessed, impatient, intolerant of nonsense and a perfectionist. His need to excel at work caused him to put in long hours and destroyed his first marriage even though he admits he had a good wife.

Back then, we were emotionally challenged. Mike’s divorce devastated him and I, though never married, had perfected the art of selecting unsuitable partners.

Because we were lucky enough to listen to and implement advice we were given by a couple who had been married 50 years at the time, we have been happier than we thought possible for 25 years and, based on our personality traits, this is no small feat. They were a minor challenge, however, compared to the situations we have persevered through together over the years.

A failed business, near bankruptcy, living out of our car for a year, a twelve year remodeling project, my eight year bout with clinical depression and giving my mother hospice care for the last six months of her life are the short list.

Despite facing these and other obstacles that could have destroyed a weaker marriage, we have never felt a threat to our relationship and we will help you make your marriage just as impervious to whatever life throws at you and you will enjoy doing it!

You have nothing to lose and a lifetime of happiness to gain.

We are committed to help others just as we were helped many years ago by sharing advice literally forced upon me by Mr. Ken Burley, a business consultant to my company. We listened because we wanted to talk about our spouse after 50 years of marriage with the love in his voice.

We are forever in his debt. We’ve faced much over the years and his simple suggestion is the cornerstone that has made the difference between success and failure for us.

Once we understood that you could take charge of your future, we built on that foundation and developed the other strategies we share in our book.

You want to be happily married for life.
We help couples be happily married for life.

We have lived happier than we thought possible without resentments, disputes or even serious arguments. I say serious because, not wanting to burst any bubbles, we still have disagreements and occasionally “Mellow” Mike will lose his temper.

Together, we have overcome numerous challenges without feeling any threat to our relationship. You can too by learning habits that will keep you happy and sustain a lifelong love affair.

Your marriage will become stronger as you incorporate them into your daily life. The more you implement, the happier you’ll be. Follow them all and have the marriage you want and be happier than you can imagine!

Don’t leave the most important
relationship in your life to chance

I hope I have convinced you that you can benefit from the experience of others just as we did many years ago. Please don’t let your marriage just “evolve”. Millions try that and fail every year.

Even if you actually know someone who has been happily married for a long time and you would feel comfortable asking about their relationship, chances are they will not be able to tell you exactly how they have done it. More than likely, they belong to that very small,and very lucky group that somehow survives the “trial and error method of marriage.” Not a good approach.

We have been happily married for 25 years. Mike did it wrong and now he’s done it right. Our success is not luck. It is the direct result of the strategies we learned, developed and implemented throughout our marriage and share in our book.

We offer the perspective of both wife and husband but we don’t have you create our idea of a great marriage. We help you realize the unique marriage dreams you envision and give you strategies that will accomplish your goals not ours.

In a few hours you can learn simple techniques you can apply immediately and that will assure you will thrive not just survive, that each of you will get what you want from your relationship and, more importantly, that your love and respect for each other will grow stronger no matter what life throws at you.

So, what are you waiting for?
Buy our book Mastering Marriage.
Implement the strategies every day.
Share your book with other couples you care about.
Tell others about your success.
Come back and let us know about your experience.

If you want your married life to be the best it can be, “Just Do It.”

Because our methods strengthen your marriage for life, we guarantee them for life.

The marriage of your dreams is just a click away.

Planning a wedding is complicated but planning your marriage is simple!

Thank you for visiting our website and best wishes for your success. Please tell your friends and family to visit us also. We love company!

Sincerely,
Charlie Michaels

P.S. Remember, if you implement all of the ideas in Mastering Marriage you will be happier than you thought possible. You will have a fantastic marriage!

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