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Finally! A Step-By-Step Guide For Creating A Marriage That Will Amaze Your Friends And Family!
If you haven't yet, you soon will experience a situation where, much
to your surprise, you and your spouse aren't on the same page and a "discussion"
ensues. It happens to virtually everyone.
From: Charlie
Michaels, co-Author of “Mastering Marriage” Mike and I are ordinary people with an extraordinary gift to share with you: the clues to growing happier and more in love throughout your marriage. You and your spouse are happy and in love. Wouldn’t it be glorious to wake up every morning for the rest of your life and feel as lucky to be with your partner as you do right now? Since this is what all couples dream of, why do so few achieve it? Can you imagine the outcome of your wedding and reception if your big day had “evolved” without any preparation? Even if chaos had not prevailed, the likelihood that your wedding would have been remotely as you’d dreamed is nil. You prepared for your wonderful day, Assuring success is easiest before unexpected issues and misunderstandings occur which happens to every married couple. Some small, some large. Some sooner, some later. Some silly, some serious. You are probably experiencing that early “Adjustment Period” virtually every couple suffers through. Unfortunately, many don’t make it but you can minimize your discomfort by doing certain things as soon as possible. Without Proper Preparation,
Most Marriages Will Fail. The problem is people don’t even know you can lay an impenetrable foundation for a marriage, let alone how. When we ask if they prepared for marriage like they did for their wedding, most couples ask us “What do you mean?” It is easy to understand why so many people are disillusioned soon after they marry and why most marriages don’t last or in time are not satisfying. Most people believe their marriage will survive by addressing each problem and issue as it arises, that their love is strong enough to get them through anything. Big mistake. All the couples who get divorced were happy and in
love on their wedding day and felt they would be joyful exceptions to the statistics.
Don’t think that if you lived together before you married you are immune. The failure rate of those who did is even higher than for those who didn’t.
Most of the disappointments we suffer in our lives are not because the actual situation is so terrible but instead stem from the disillusionment that sets in when the reality differs from our expectations. This is true in marriage also. Almost all of us had unrealistic impressions of marriage that developed over our lifetimes based on movies, TV, magazines and newspapers. In addition, most people haven’t given any real thought to what they personally expect and want from married life. They just get married. We believe the major cause of the early differences
that can grow into marriage-ending problems is that few people take the time to
merge what they each wanted from marriage into a common goal and define how they
would achieve it. The truth is they simply didn’t know what to do. Their plan for their future together was that they had no plan. Take heart, years ago we too had no clue how to plan for marriage. Even if you had pre-marriage counseling by the clergy or a marriage professional, they will not have covered the day to day strategies we share. My husband and I wrote Mastering Marriage for every couple who wants to grow happier and more in love each year. It details every idea we have used for 25 years to have a marriage that exceeds our wildest expectations and our expectations were lofty! The sooner you read about and implement our suggestions the better. It’s much easier to avoid a disagreement than to make adjustments after some conflict arises or after you have somehow broken a rule you didn’t even know existed! A little effort now can avoid situations that develop into problems that diminish or destroy marriages. This is better than putting a lot of effort later into attempting to smooth over a dispute after one of you is “right” and the other “wrong”. The result is a marriage that gets better every year instead of a blah marriage or divorce. In just a few hours you can
assure the success of your marriage. With a minimum of effort today, your marriage will be everything you hope for. There are pitfalls you can avoid and things you can do that will assure success. A sampling of the secrets you’ll uncover in Mastering Marriage:
Give each other the gift of a GREAT marriage.
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Our suggestions will make your life together better; the more you incorporate into your daily life, the happier you will be. If you follow them all, you will be happier than you can imagine.
Ultimately, I was angry, hurt and both hated men and needed their approval. I lacked positive role models and had no apparent relationship skills. I am bossy, demanding, strong willed, impatient, intolerant of nonsense and a perfectionist. I also have many positive traits, I’m sure. Mike went to an all boys’ high school and admits to being backwards and awkward with women. He has an explosive temper, is bossy, argumentative, strong willed, work obsessed, impatient, intolerant of nonsense and a perfectionist His need to excel at work caused him to put in long hours and destroyed his first marriage even though he admits he had a good wife. Back then, we were “emotionally challenged”. Mike’s divorce devastated him and I, though never married, had perfected the art of selecting unsuitable partners. Because we listened to and implemented advice given to us by a couple who had been happily married for 50 years at the time, we have been happier than we thought possible for 25 years and, based on our personality traits, this is no small feat. They were a minor challenge, however, compared to the situations we have persevered through together over the years. A failed business, near bankruptcy, living out of our car for a year, a twelve year remodeling project, my eight year bout with clinical depression and giving my mother hospice care for the last six months of her life are the short list. Despite facing these and other obstacles that could have destroyed a weaker marriage, we never felt the slightest threat to our relationship. We will help you make your marriage just as impervious to whatever life throws at you and you will have fun doing it! Everyone starts out expecting a wonderful marriage but few know exactly how to accomplish that elusive goal. I believe that if you want to know how be happily married, listen to a couple that’s been happily married for many years. Based on statistics, most of you aren’t going to know many people that fit that description. Even if you do, how many do you feel comfortable asking details of how they handle sex, money and other issues in their relationship? What to do. It’s Simple. We are committed to help others
just as we were helped many years ago by Mr. Ken Burley, a business consultant to my
company. He told me he could tell that I had met the man I was going to marry and he
wanted to give me some advice. Once we understood that you could take charge of your future, we built on that foundation and developed the other strategies we share in our book. We have lived happier than we thought possible
without resentments, disputes or even serious arguments. I say serious because, not
wanting to burst any bubbles, we still have disagreements and occasionally “Mellow”
Mike will lose his temper. Tomorrow’s success depends on what you
do today. I hope I have convinced you that you can benefit from the experience of others just as we did many years ago, even if you don’t think you need it. Whether it is our advice or that of someone else that has a great marriage, please don’t let your marriage “evolve” haphazardly. Millions try that and fail every year. The odds are heavily against success. Even if you’re one of the fortunate few to be raised in a home where your parents openly loved each other and had a marriage to emulate, it is a safe bet that you have no idea how they accomplished it. You saw the façade not the foundation. In addition, odds are even they will not be able to tell you exactly how they have done it. More than likely they belong to that very small and very lucky group that somehow survives the “trial and error method of marriage.” Not a good approach. We have been happily married for 25 years. Mike did it wrong and now he’s done it right. Our success is not luck. It is the direct result of the strategies we learned, developed and implemented throughout our marriage and share in our book. We offer the perspective of both wife and husband but we don’t have you create our idea of a great marriage. We help you realize the unique marriage dreams you envision and give you strategies that will accomplish your goals not ours. In a few hours you can learn simple techniques you can apply immediately and that will assure you will thrive not just survive, that each of you will get what you want from your relationship and, more importantly, that your love and respect for each other will grow stronger no matter what life throws at you. You have nothing to lose and a lifetime of happiness to gain.
Great Marriages Don’t Just Happen.
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If you honestly can’t afford to buy our book Planning a wedding was complicated but planning your marriage is simple! Thank you for visiting our website and best wishes for your success. Please tell your friends and family to visit us also. We love company! Sincerely, P.S. Remember, if you implement all of the ideas in Mastering Marriage you will be happier than you thought possible. You will have a fantastic marriage! ORDER the hardbound book right now. Download and PRINT your copy right now. | |