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Believe me, we didn’t start out as likely
candidates to be writing a book on this topic. My dating history
ran from comical to sad to really pathetic. At my high school graduation
dinner, my classmates named me “the person most likely to
have her love life made into a soap opera.” And that was before
things got bad!
Ultimately, I was angry, hurt
and both hated men and needed their approval. I lacked positive
role models and had no apparent relationship skills. I am bossy,
demanding, strong willed, impatient, intolerant of nonsense and
a perfectionist. I also have many positive traits, I’m sure.
Mike went to an all boys’
high school and admits to being backwards and awkward with women.
He has an explosive temper, is bossy, argumentative, strong willed,
work obsessed, impatient, intolerant of nonsense and a perfectionist
His need to excel at work caused him to put in long hours at the
office and destroyed his first marriage even though, by his own
admission, he had a good wife.
Back then, we were emotionally
challenged. Mike’s divorce devastated him and I,
though never married, had perfected the art of selecting unsuitable
partners.
Yet we have been happier than
we thought possible for 25 years and, based on our personalities,
this is no small feat. The above is nothing, however, compared to
what we have persevered through over the years.
A failed business, near bankruptcy, living out
of our car for a year, a twelve year remodeling project, my eight year bout with
clinical depression and giving my mother hospice care for the last six months of
her life are the short list.
Despite facing these and other obstacles that
could have destroyed a weaker marriage, we have never felt a threat to our
relationship.
We will help you make
your couples’ marriages impervious to whatever life throws
at them and they will have fun doing it!
The goals of our book, Mastering
Marriage, are the same as yours for your couples: that
their love and respect grows stronger every year; that they stay
happily married for life; and, that their children grow up blessed
with the security and joy that comes from a loving, two parent home.
Your guidance will assure
their success.
Because twenty five years ago we were pretty
clueless not even realizing you could prepare for married life, we call our
strategies “clues”. There are twenty of them and every one is well worth the time
invested. Our recommitment ritual, only takes one second a day!
We believe your couples should read our book and
follow our methods because we are happily married as a result of
living them daily for 25 years through “life lessons”
that would have ended many marriages; because Mike’s done
it wrong before and, together, we’ve done it right; because
we learned from others and have spent a lot of effort developing
an effective way to strengthen a marriage.
Our part is not rocket science. Our methods
are simple, straight-forward and easy to implement.
A little effort today will help them pre-empt
those circumstances which develop into serious problems that always
diminish and often destroy a marriage. It seems obvious that this
is approach is far better than putting a lot of effort later into
overcoming the situation after one of them is “right”
and the other “wrong”.
With a little effort, their marriage can be everything
they hope for and everything you hope for them. There are pitfalls
they can avoid and actions they can take that will virtually assure
their success.
Some of our ideas are so intuitive they will implement
them without thinking. Others require conscious thought, and a few
take continued effort to be effective.
Our suggestions will make their life together
better; the more of them they incorporate into their daily life,
the happier they will be. If they follow them all they will be happier
than they can imagine.
We’ve shown how we can save you time by
having your couples read our book and implement our methods reducing
your one-on-one time significantly. Even if this is one of the favorite
parts of your job, we are sure somebody else will benefit from your
extra time, perhaps your own family, if you are married!
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